Why Do People Grow Apart After Years Together?

Why Do People Grow Apart After Years Together?

Why Do People Grow Apart After Years Together?Cheryl Harris, Ph.D.
Published on: 08/09/2025

Many marriages end not in dramatic conflict but in gradual disconnection. Understanding why partners grow apart helps couples identify strategies for prevention.

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How Long Should It Take to Move On?

How Long Should It Take to Move On?

How Long Should It Take to Move On?  Cheryl Harris, Ph.D.
Published on: 06/09/2025

The process of moving on from a relationship varies significantly. Some individuals recover quickly, while others struggle for years. The timeline is shaped by multiple factors, including attachment style, coping mechanisms, and relationship investment.

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Should I Stay Friends With an Ex?

Should I Stay Friends With an Ex?

Should I Stay Friends With an Ex?Cheryl Harris, Ph.D.
Published on: 04/09/2025

The decision to remain friends with a former partner is complex and context-dependent. While some friendships can be supportive, others may hinder emotional recovery.

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How Do I Know if We Are Communicating Effectively?

How Do I Know if We Are Communicating Effectively?

How Do I Know if We Are Communicating Effectively?Cheryl Harris, Ph.D.
Published on: 01/09/2025

Couples often mistake frequent talking for effective communication, but true effectiveness is measured by outcomes rather than frequency.

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